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By Cari Jean Williams, Ph.D., L.P.C.

Estimated reading time: 4 minutes, 57 seconds.

Selena is a precocious five-year­ old girl who could not stop sucking her fingers. Her teeth were beginning to protrude. Because she still believes in Santa Claus and the Tooth Fairy, I was positive that she would be very susceptible to hypnosis.

I asked Selena to “move to the magic chair where kids stop sucking their fingers .” Then, at my request, she named each finger. She respond­ed with, “Bunny  Rabbit,”  “Robin” and other similar titles. I directed her to ask each finger if it liked being sucked. She said, “No.” Then, I asked her to find out what her fingers would rather do instead. After some conver­sation with her fingers, she told me they would rather play dolls, jump rope, and do puzzles.

l suggested, “Let’s see how we can give those fingers more time to play.” With proper ceremony, I showed Selena my “magic wand.” I then asked her to “… think of a magic word that will keep you from sucking your fingers.” With delight, she squealed, “Poof!”

Next, I asked Selena to put each finger in her mouth. “But,” I cautioned her, “before you put your fin­gers in your mouth, say ‘Poof!’ And I will wave my magic wand.” We repeated this pleasant little ritual with each finger.

Then, I told her she could do that all by herself after she left my office.

The following week, Selena and her mother reported that Selena did not suck her fingers all week except for one short moment as Selena was leaving my office. The mother then mentioned, almost in passing, that she would ask me to help Selena over­come her bedwetting, but she knew Selena was not yet ready to stop that behavior. I began to talk to Selena, reinforcing the previous week’s process, but it seemed not to have any energy left in it. Then I told Selena, “I don’t want you to stop wetting the bed yet. But you will be ready very soon. So let’s do some things when you are ready. OK? Can we do the same magic for the part of you that wets the bed?”

Selena agreed. I told her I would wave my magic wand and asked her what she would do. She replied that she “would dive, like this.” She stood and did a full-body dive onto the couch. As she hit the couch she said, “POOF!”

Selena did several more dives on the couch and then progressed to crawling all over the floor saying she “was swimming like in the Olympics.” I gave her an “Olympic medal ” (a sticker) and told her that the medal was for “all the dry ‘Pull­ Ups’ you will have now.” A week later, I phoned the mother for a “fol­low-up.” She reported Selena had not sucked her fingers since the day of our first session and had not wet the bed since our second.

by William Keydel, M.A.

Magical … and fun. This wonder­ful case illustrates three principles that are at the heart of Ericksonian psychotherapy. First and foremost is the acceptance and honoring of the client’s way of viewing the world. Dr. Williams begins by utilizing the preschooler’s belief in magic to set the stage for change. She deepens Selena’s natural imagery by asking her to name her fingers and creating imaginary friends so common to children’s play. It is then these friends of Selena’s unconscious who provide motivation for change with reasons meaningful to the child and not even necessary for Williams to know. Williams also evokes Selena’s natur­al energy and excitement by allowing her to come up with magical words and acts that would extinguish unwanted behaviors. In these ways, Williams has entered Selena’s world to stimulate change from within.

The second principle which stands out is the interruption of exist­ing patterns through strategic inter­ventions. The beauty of Erickson’s work stemmed from his ability to see the individual’s patterns and his cre­ative responses to those patterns of gen­erating change with a minimal amount of effort. By having Selena say, “Poof!” as she put each finger up to her mouth,  Williams introduced a change in the old pattern. Then this became a new pattern, reinforced by practice with each finger, and further reinforced by the excitement of creat­ing magic on her own. In this case,  it’s easy to imagine that Selena expe­rienced no effort as the strategic inter­vention created its own reward. Similarly, Selena’s patterns for approaching bedtime were changed with her full-body dives which natu­rally utilized the playful energy of a child.

The third principle to be honored in William’s handling of the case is the willingness to let go of theories and “treatment plans” and respond to the client. As Erickson is quoted by Gindhart, “Too many psychothera­pists try to plan what they will do instead of waiting to see what the stimulus they receive is, and then let­ting their unconscious mind respond to that stimulus” (p. 120). While rein­forcement is generally good to work, Williams responded to her client’s “energy ” and appropriately moved on. Throughout her work with Selena, Williams demonstrates the elegance of responding to her client and there­by allowing Selena, in a general way, to structure therapy in accordance with her needs.

I could have focused on Williams’ effective use of permissive therapy and embedded commands; or my focus could have fallen on the value of using a naturalistic trance to avoid the awkwardness a formal trance induction is likely to have on a child. But, as Richard Dimond points out in “Trials and Tribulations of Becoming an Ericksonian Psycho­therapist,”  (Zeig, 1985), Ericksonian psychotherapy requires more than learning Erickson’s techniques. There are fundamental principles about entering in and trusting the uncon­scious system of the child across from us.


Dimond, R. (1985). “Trials and Tribulations of Becoming an Ericksonian Psychotherapist.” In Zeig (Ed.), Ericksonian Psychotherapy, Vol. 1: Struct­ures. NY: Brunner/Mazel

Gindhart, L. (1985). “Hypnotic Psychotherapy.” In J. Zeig (Ed.), Ericksonian Psychotherapy, Vol. 1: Structures. NY: Brunner/ Mazel

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